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Drinking gives me abundance of courage to say things that I don’t wish to mention.

This is going to change.

Mr Hyde is going to camp deep inside me for a long time from NOW onwards.

Yes, talk is cheap like I always said. But the words always work hand in hand with my sub-conscience mind to execute actions when I am a little overdose. Doing stupid things that if given a choice, I would like to reverse the whole process.

Right now,

The beer boy in me will continue to love the malt barley drink. Not with limitation, but with total control.

My godmother recently ask me what is blissful in my opinion. There are millions of scenarios to relate blissful act, such as this one that I witness today.

While resting at the stadium after a fruitful jog with my friend, I saw an old lady sitting alone at the corner of the bench looking at someone out in the running track. 15 minutes later, a fine old gentlemen  walk up to her slowly. They met and they smile at each other. Slowly, this sweet old couple then head for the exit, holding hands.  I estimate their marriage is at a healthy figure of 30 years. Imagine living together with your love one for 3 decades, and still very much in love.

I smile to myself.

So, here I am in the midst of Chinese New Year writing a blog. It has to be related to CNY somehow right?

Yes indeed.

Happy END of Chinese New Year.

Time to grow my wealth now.

There are plenty of priorities for a guy in the late 20s, which is, Ahem..my age ( I am proud to admit I am 28 this year).

Let me see..

Career? Investments? Family? Properties? There are so many to list but the one I am going to discuss about is Marriage.

Yes, Andy is not going to get married so soon, so don’t let your mind escalate to an irrational stage. I am just dead curious about what kind of answer they would have if I were to post that question. A question that has been running around in my mind for some time.

Why do you think he/she is the one?

In my context, Marriage is not a “just because we are together for so long, then we have to get married” thing. I am talking about LIFETIME Commitments and Responsibility plus plenty of PURE love towards the other half. When you are looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend in your younger days, I believe what you are actually looking for is LOVE and FUN. Someone to hang out with when you are bore, someone to hold your hands and whisper sweet rubbish. As you grow older to a wiser stage( which bluntly translate to older stage), Ask yourself this question. Why do you think he/she is the one? The one that will stay with you for the rest of your life.

Give it a thought.

Back to the topic, and so I went around asking those people who are married. There’s million and one answers to that question due to the boring fact that no one is the same.

I ask myself what kind of person I want to stick with, for the REST OF MY LIFE.

I found the answer, it is a very simple answer again.

And no, I am not going to reveal here.

BUT,

I can share with you what majority says.

“You can just feel it.”

Simple isn’t it?

I just feel so comforting, to have my very good friends with me when I am sad. Mr Leong and Mr Loh in fact. Both read  a lot, from there their analytical skills are always improving. Whatever problems I face, the both of them always enlighten me in a very rational manner. These few days, I did a lot of self discovery to find out what I really want at this current stage. Although there’s no final conclusion yet, but I seems to know what exactly is the best for me. Thank you my friends.

I guess at my age, I have filter out who can be, and can’t be as a friend. Someone whom I can really call Friend. The fact that at the age of 28, I have successfully educate myself in the world of friendship. Be nice to me, understanding, appreciative, joke with me, go through bad times with me. But I am sorry, you won’t be label as a friend in my dictionary so fast. You will just be an affiliate of mine. My apologies again, because the fact that throughout my growing up years, I make friends, or so called “Friends” easily. Friends who do unpleasant things to me to benefit themselves. That’s why it’s never easy for me to label one as a friend.

Mr Leong was telling me about Mr Hyde. How interesting, go Google it if you want to know more, the internet is there for a reason. Yes, Part of My Mr Hyde just came out and wrote this entry. Dun blame him on being so defensive. Instead, try to understand him.

What I have in mind now, is to strengthen my Dr Jekyll. I want to master the art of understanding and reading people. It can be through a person’s mind, or his actions. Talk is cheap, I don’t believe in words any more.

Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. What an Interesting theory.